This thingy sometimes pop up in my mind. Hmm.
--> Can a man and a woman truly be friends without ever falling in love? And, how large is the line between FRIENDSHIP and LOVE, or, does it even exist at all? <--
Rasa2... ada jawapan yang besh tak? Haih. Pathetic, kan? *sigh*
Note: Selalu tak sure. At last, melepas. Hehe.
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Can. But usually one of u will definitely fall in love. This is human nature, when we get too close with someone, sometimes we didn't realize the feelings have rose up btwn u guys.
and it will result 2 circumstances if any of u make a confession. Whether both of u will finally together as a couple OR u guys will ruin the friendship
Based on my experience, i will advice both of u to hold the friendship.
for instance, if A (that refers to u) have a problem with C (your boyfriend). So u will seek advices or share problems with your bestfriend that is B (your bestfriend)
But what will happen if B become your boyfriend? to whom u will refer if have any love problems?
Another consequences that u have to take into consideration is if any of u reject the proposal? believe me, that u will ruin the friendship. u guys cannot pretend like there's nothing had happened between both of u. and it's quite hard for u guys to be like before/usual.
i've been through all these and it's very painful dear. Seriously. But after all, with God will, there's nobody in this earth can restrict it, right.
Please make a very wise decision friend. Consider it at every anger/aspect
Cika
thanx, dear Cika. good point. appreciate it, a lot! :)
tp kalau takut melepas, redah je.hehe.
Life is like a box of chocolate, we never know what we will get :>
cika
Bule. Just take an example of me, malia, angie, nana... ok jek...
sayang mmg sayang kat mereka tapi as a fren... :-)
Bule. Just take an example of me, malia, angie, nana... ok jek...
sayang mmg sayang kat mereka tapi as a fren... :-)
owh my dear, alangkah beruntungnya kalau diberi keberanian untuk meredah. kan? hehe.
ps: kinder bueno ada tak dlm box tu? :p
hey jazzy... congrats eks!
okies, i'll go for ~ bule! :p
maybe u will get kinder bueno, or perhaps it is ferrero roche , but who knows if u get Patchi or Bateel???? who knows friend?
With God will :>
btw, dulu i pernah ckp untungnye if my bestfriend jadi boyfriend i.
senang cerita because dia dah tau my true colour & i don't have to pretend. Tapi it turns out not to be like what i want.
That's why i said when the status changed, everything will change automatically. Plus, he will keeps on comparing what u've did to your ex boyfie. and don't be surprise if they quite demanding
cik sugus, comment kat atas tu i punye.
cika
hehe. thanx again, dear cika.. :D
hmm, patchi pun besh gak. chocolate.. semua mmg besh. sbb sy hantu chocolate. hehe.
well, on the other hand, sy sgt2 tak nak menda2 mcm ni jadi dlm life sy. that's why kdg2 sy terfikir, if tetiba menda2 mcm ni jadi, cane nak react eh? kalau terjadi la kan.. :D
sbb bg sy, bila dah rapat n share cerita n etc... mcm dah takleh nak cintan cintun kot.. sayang tu lain.. so, if given options, sy takkan pilih close/bestfriend utk jd bf..
cuma.. apa yg sy takutkan adalah.. kalau tetiba someone yg very close buat confession.. mesti serba salah kan...
atau, macam mana pulak kalau tetiba pendirian sy yg berubah? sy pulak yg feeling2? hehe.. scary kan.. haih.. (kalau terjadi, hopefully sy boleh bertahan! *wink*)
persoalan lain pulak, bila A dgn B berkawan rapat.. A dgn B ok2 jer dgn friendship dorang tp org lain pulak yang lebey2.
the thing is, A dan B mmg takde feeling2 pun. tapi, bila semua org ckp itu dan ini membuatkan A kdg2 terfikir menda2 yang mengarut. (and maybe, B jugak terfikir menda yg sama.hmm.)
menda2 mengarut tu termasuklah, A takut B akan tersalah faham dengan usikan kwn2 tu. nnt B mesti tak selesa. atau, B akan rasa A perasan syok sendiri. haha. (kan dah tak besh kat situ. kan?)
plus, guys akan selalu relatekan B dlm apa jer isu life A. begitu jugak sebaliknya. misalnya, "takpe ke aku ajak kau nih. A tak marah ker?" "eh, B bukan bf kau ker?" ~ sgt annoying okk!
sampai satu tahap A dan B (atau salah seorang) berasa tidak selesa, rimas dan malas dgn ckp2 org. dan tanpa sedar ada gap yang A atau B sengaja create. for example, menjarakkan diri. kat situ jer, indirectly dah ruin frenship tu.
so, harap2 mintak dijauhkan drpd situasi spt ini. ameen... :)
ps: kalau tak keberatan, nak tau jugak, ending ceritera cika tu.. :D
~sugus~
hehe...biasala kwn2 kan suka mengusik.. mungkin mrk nampak ade chemistry di antara cik sugus & si dia.
Sad ending la cik sugus utk ceritera saya. Hilang kawan baik & lover jugak.
Saje nak share something.
1-The moment u says u know that person very well is actually the moment u just start press the button to know him.
2- Men find happiness in their own mysterious ways. Sometimes we not even know what exactly they want from a women. In certain cases, kadang2 tangan kanan tak tahu pun apa yang tangan kiri buat. Begitulah lelaki.
Sbg contoh, kita rasa dia baik sangat, sanggup berkorban apa sahaja untuk kita, sentiasa ada bila kita memerlukan, bagi barang, etc. Semua orang nampak kita berdua pasangan paling compatible, ada chemistry, mesra dsb. Ditambah pulak dgn mulut org sekeliling yang mengusik2 kita berdua & cakap yg lelaki ni suka kat kita. Lelaki tak akan buat macam ni la, macam tu la hanya pada kawan, dia mesti suka perempuan tu, then baru dia akan bersungguh2 tolong.
So sometimes kita dah salah terima signal dari dia, kita ingat dia suka pada kita. Rupanya dia pun buat benda yg sama pada kawan baik dia yg lain juga. So lebih baik kita clear cut dgn dia dari awal-awal.
Ada baiknye bercinta dgn kwn baik sendiri, tp ada juga buruknye.
Kalau diberi pilihan i lebih suka bestfriend i jadi my husband tapi apa kan daya, tiada jodoh antara kami.
Cika
dulu sugus... dulu..
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